Joyful Habit 11 | Random Acts Of Kindness

Joyful Habit 11 | Random Acts Of Kindness

How is it November already?!? I feel like I just started my year of joyfulness journey and now I am already on my second to last habit. For this month, I have chosen random acts of kindness as my joyful habit. I thought this was appropriate as we begin the holiday season.


As a busy mom, I know that I have to be intentional about actually making this habit work. So I took to my planner and wrote a random act of kindness in for each day of the month. That way I won’t waste time thinking of what I can do on any particular day.


Lastly, I do not have a lot of extra money to spend this month. With three birthdays in the family, Thanksgiving and Christmas shopping, I needed this to be budget friendly. Most of the ideas I came up with are free. Here are just a few ideas I came up with if you need inspiration:


  • Pick up one of the kids early from school and take a trip to the playground
  • Write a letter to the kids about all the things I love about them
  • Pack lunch for my husband


So as you can see they are super simple. And I am focusing most of my kindness towards my family, since they are the ones closest to me. However, I do intend to share acts of kindness with others as well. 

Now here are the reasons I chose random acts of kindness for my Joyful Habit this month.

Joyful Habit 11 | Random Acts Of Kindness

Good For Your Heart

Performing and witnessing random acts of kindness leads to the production of oxytocin. This causes the release of nitric oxide, which leads to blood vessels expanding. This creates lower blood pressure and promotes good heart health.


Increased Energy

A study at UC Berkeley showed that those who performed random acts of kindness felt stronger and more energized.  


Slows Aging And Prevents Illness

The release of oxytocin reduces inflammation in the body. Inflammation is one of the main causes of aging and illness.


Reduced Stress Anxiety And Depression

Back to our old friend, oxytocin here. This feel good hormone will reduce the amount of stress, anxiety and depression by lowering your cortisol levels, in addition to all the other feel good effects listed above. Additionally, when we perform random acts of kindness we release serotonin which calms you down and makes you feel happy.


Makes You Happier

According to Dr. David Hamilton, “On a biochemical level, it is believed that the good feeling we get is due to elevated levels of the brain’s natural versions of morphine and heroin, which we know as endogenous opioids. They cause elevated levels of dopamine in the brain and so we get a natural high, often referred to as ‘Helper’s High’.”


Raises Self Esteem

When we do good for others, we feel better about ourselves. It also makes us feel useful and valued. 


Improves Relationships

When we do kind things for others, it increases your bond to them. It could also lead to creating new relationships by being kind to strangers.


I was quite surprised to learn of all the benefits of such a simple habit. Remember, these acts do not have to be grandiose or cost money in order to be effective. In my opinion, the more simple the better because you will be more likely to stock with it.


More From This Series:

Joyful Habit 10 | 15 Seconds A Day To A Healthy Marriage
Joyful Habit 9 | Create A Beautful Home
Joyful Habit 8 | Developing A Gratitude Practice
Create A Life Management Plan | 6 Things You Need To Start Planning
5 Reasons You Need To Make Sleep A Priority
Year Of Joyfulness – Progress To Date
Joyful Habit #5, Mini Habit 4
Joyful Habit #5, Mini Habit 3
Joyful Habit #5, Mini Habit 2
Joyful Habit #5, Mini Habit 1
Joyful Habit #5 – 5 Unexpected Ways A Clean Home Makes You Happier
Joyful Habit #4 – Exercise
Joyful Habit #3 – Eating For Happiness
Joyful Habit #2 – Wake Up Earlier
Joyful Habit #1 – Positive Mindset
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  1. Great habit to implement. I love the idea of random act of kindness. It’s similar to the idea of “Paying It Forward.” If each of us adopts it in our everyday life, the world will be a much more better place.

    On the other notes, 3 Scorpios on the household? I can imagine the emotional intensity! 😉

  2. Your post caught my eye. I do think as a busy parent, we do need to make more time for acts of kindness and your suggestions are simple, and wonderful. And it makes us happy inside so it’s a double win #brillblogposts

  3. I love everything about this post. You can never go wrong with doing random acts of kindness. It always makes me feel much better to doing something kind than not doing something kind. Thank you for the reminder to be kind.

  4. This is a great idea. We could all do with both giving and receiving kindness for its own sake a little more, in a world where we seem to be becoming increasingly selfish and resentful of anyone who is different or has more than us. #fortheloveofBLOG

  5. We definitely need to spread a little more kindness. Love all the benefits it can bring too! My brother has asked guests to commit random acts of kindness instead of gifts for his wedding next year which I think is great. #fortheloveofBLOG

  6. I love this. I’m going to pin it.

    I just found your blog while I was visiting Mostly Blogging. You have a great blog and I’m glad I found it.

  7. I really enjoyed this post! Random acts of kindness are a wonderful way to share your love with your family and the world. Pinning. Thank you for sharing, and for being a part of the Hearth and Soul Link Party. Hope to ‘see’ you at the party again this week. Have a lovely week!

  8. I need to implement this with intention this month. Thanks so much for linking at To Grandma’s House We Go link party! Your project has been pinned. We hope to see you again this Wednesday!

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